A lot of times i have heard people calling each other stupid because the other happens to have hope and this got me thinking. Why such a reaction? I have come to the conclusion that perhaps people are afraid of hoping because they are afraid of disappointments. They like to play it safe and do not wish to have their spirit crushed by not getting what they hoped for.
On the other hand, isn’t it just a way of holding ourselves back ? I believe it is, because if you do not have hopes, it is very hard to move forward. Expectations are what drives us to progress. You want something, you work for it then you hope it happens as reward of what you have worked for. But if we do not have hope then what are we working for ? We are just being stagnant and waiting to be carried in whichever direction the wind blows.
If we are to live such a life, we will certainly not get anywhere for ourselves, instead we will he getting to other people’s destination and be part of someone else’s hope. There is nothing wrong in playing a role in another person’s achievement, it is great and very noble to give a helping hand but one the other hand, from time to time we should have hopes of our own and let others be part of it.
That way we both get to be on both sides of the equation and it will be more balanced rather than being one sided at all times. What i am trying to say is do not hold back on your hopes just because of fear or simply to avoid being disappointed. You have to put yourself out there, sometimes it will work out good and other times not so good. Either way keep going and keep hoping for without hope we are definitely setting ourselves for the best disappointment that can be, which is letting ourselves down.
Laval Andy Alain
The human race has to stop blaming one another for all the things happening and start realizing that everything that is happening is because of us, because of our actions. Certainly it is easier to put the blame on someone else rather than accepting our flaws. The pollution is coz of us when we throw that plastic bag out in nature. We want peace in the world but we are full of hate ourselves, we blame all sort of things but yet we refuse to take actions. Remember that the human race is not others, its YOU man race so it implies you. Stop blaming him or her. Instead start embracing your role for it is more important and significant that you think. A change in you have a great impact on others and can incite a chain reaction, this goes both in the good and bad ways and it’s simply a matter of choice. You, me, us, we are the humans and its not just the others. The sooner you realize that’s and the sooner you believe it, the faster you will see the change you believe in and instead of waiting on others to do it, you’ll simply do it yourself.
To those lips i never kissed and the hands i never heldHow can i miss you so much when I don’t even know your touch
Why do i longer for you when we have never met
I keep wondering where this connection happened, if not physical it must be spiritual
We must have met in the stars yet having no memory of it. Oh my midnight lover i wish i could remember your face so that i could recognize you through the crowd
I hope we get reconnected again if not here i am sure to see you again in my dreams
But wait, am not even awake yet…
Where am i ?
Midnight lover guide me, help me find my way to you